Does your subconscious mind rule?

Do you know that our subconscious mind is the largest part of us and it accumulate all our different (positive or negative) experiences?  These feelings are then stored in our memory bank - the Limbic System or Emotional Brain. 

Through time the subconscious mind dictate most of our reactions and behaviours and the verbal mind rationalises, judges and explains these reactions and behaviours. 

Thus via our unawareness we actually cannot help, resist or prevent the manifestation of most of our reactions and behaviours. 

The process ‘Rediscover your trustworthy self’

‘Rediscover your trustworthy self’ will assist you in identifying your inner-child’s unique defence mechanism.  This unique defence mechanism has internalised the painful behaviours of parents and others against you. 

Therefore the defence-imitation has one goal: ‘to protect you against pain from your past’.   The defence-imitation also has its own protective motivations, reasons and strategies (roles and games) within your present being and circumstances. 

The defence mechanism might turn into an unconscious force of act which can be the cause of psychological confusion.  Within your unawareness you may consider it unavoidable and this will limit your opportunities and quality of life.

The counselling sessions will bring about:

The application of the process ‘Rediscover your trustworthy self’

You and I will practically be working together during the de-construction of the defence mechanism by means of:

The process ‘Rediscover your trustworthy self’ is created on the basis of cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT (a hands-on, problem-solving approach).   Once mastered, ‘Rediscover your trustworthy self’ can be applied throughout your life.

The ultimate goal

The ultimate goal is to rediscover your core values and return to your trustworthy self! 
Romans 12:1-2    1 And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.
Don’t copy the behaviour and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.

Life coaching

Did you ever sing to God “I surrender all” with so much love, hope and faith deep in your heart that you will do just that.  But come the next day you find yourself on the opposite side of “I surrender all”.  The process “Rediscover your trustworthy self” will show you the way to surrender – allowing the Holy Spirit to be your life coach: cultivating the Fruits of the Spirit.


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